Sunday, February 15, 2009

the nicest, the stupidest

most people are trained to be a good person.
not all but just most.
but why is that so?
why we should be nice to everyone?

first and foremost,
you do that because you expect others to do the same thing to you.
you are scared if you start being harsh to them, they also will act just as the same.
of course you are not going to slap your friends' face.
of course you are not going to kick your friends' butt.
of course you are not going to hurt their feelings intentionally.
you are SCARED people will hurt you the same way as you did.

but then, sometimes, the nicest will be the stupidest.
the courtesy you show is a target for others to shoot you.
the politeness you act making others loose confidence on you.
if the nicest will be the stupidest, then is the worst will be the smartest?

anne. a very hard-hearted girl. always speaks her mind out. simply never care about what others say to her. and because of that, she dares to speak anything she wishes. i think she is smart.

me. try to be nice to everyone. try to take care of others' feelings. try to cheer everyone up. and now i know it is stupid.

*p/s: all my housemates (all 3 houses, haha) :thanks for the suprise (even not so suprised),the melted cake and the presents.
along:thanks for the treat.
sueray:thanks for EVERYTHING.
indera, zaf and zizie:thanks for the pouring of your DRINK on me.and the presents.
friends and my dearest family:thanks for the wishes and heaven-treat.
thanks a lot.



*credit to my dear yana for the pictures.

10 comments:

.::annemishi::. said...

im smart??? o_O naaa~~not really.. xtly,it supposed to be sometimes.not always.. =D.. r u sure i dont care what others say about me?? ;;) hurm... i do care. but dint take it too seriously. i know it will hurt me more. so, just pretend that i dont care much.




nope.its not stupid. its a pleasure to everyone u r being nice. =)hurm..

Matluthfi90 said...

i told palee to not please evryone, but he never listen.

ggselamber said...

i found my name :D
da present i gave u, keep it clean,huhu

btw, it was indera n zhaf idea to pour DRINK on u, i just a spectator..

SuE RaY said...

yay...

got my name there..

mwakz..
fairuz have a great year..

mish u lotz..

hurm, don't be too nice to others..
but ur niceness, makes everyone love u all the better..

:D
so we should appreciate u more..
:D

fairuz said...

anne..
maybe you are right that the kindness is not really stupid..

but still, we need to choose to whom we can be nice..

by the way, not everyone deserves to have it, rite?

luthfi..
huh? i never see palee being nice to anyone..

seryesly..

maybe once, the first day we know each other..

zizie..
ya rite..
:P

sueray..
hmm, sueray, sometimes it is hard to really know to whom i should be nice..

i think i am like a mirror..

i treat everyone the same way they treat me..

if they treat me nicely, then i will do the same..

and if they are not, the same thing happen..

maybe that is the best one can do, rite?

keciq_palee said...

haih..i m nice ok
nice to evryone except u feroz
haha

fairuz said...

see, it is extremely true what i said about palee..

Anonymous said...

how glad i am to found your blog here,huhu

Indera said...

bubuh ar gambar hadiah aku ngn azizi bagi tuh.. baru la tersenyum sampai ke telinga aku nanti hehe..

fairuz said...

ei indera ko nih, ckup2 la glamer ko tuh..
okay?